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My Inspiration

30 Friday Mar 2012

Posted by Ginny Marie in breast cancer, writing

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This is all Gretchen’s fault. If this post makes you cry (and I am talking to my dear family members), you can blame her.

This week, her prompt for Spin Cycle is to write about a woman who is your role model.

I tried NOT to go with the obvious choice.

There are SO many women to choose from. I have been inspired by women I know and women I don’t know. Women from the past and women from the present.

But there is one woman who made me the woman I am today.

My mom is not my role model because of all the quilts she made, although she inspired me to start quilting.

Mom is not my role model because she took voice lessons on and off her whole life, although people at church have told me I have a voice like hers. (They are being so kind, but it is simply not true!)

She is not even my role model because she survived breast cancer for twenty-six years with such dignity and supported me through my own diagnosis of breast cancer.

All of these things certainly do inspire me. HOWEVER…

…my mom listened to me rambled on and on with my teen-aged thoughts when she came home from work and had to make dinner.

She gave me voice lessons and was my best cheerleader before high school musical auditions.

Mom spoke her mind, and told me when I was not dating the right boy, and as much as I hated to admit it, in my heart I knew she was right.

She told me not to be mad at my new husband, and told me all about her first fight with my dad.

Thrilled to be a grandma, she encouraged me as a new mom. When I was struggling with temper tantrums and potty training, Mom always had words of comfort and advice.

Simply put, Mom is my role model and my inspiration because she is MY MOM.

For more Spins about inspirational role models, visit Gretchen at Second Blooming.

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Meeting Daddy for Lunch

29 Thursday Mar 2012

Posted by Ginny Marie in family

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The traffic is getting slightly heavier. The houses are getting closer together. The whining is getting louder.

Lily keeps asking, “How long ’til we get there?” It is only a half-an-hour drive.

I know why she is asking, though. We are going to meet Daddy for lunch, and she is so excited to see him at work.

We weave our way through the narrow streets in an industrial area. I have these streets etched in my memory, yet I couldn’t tell you their names. After negotiating the maze, we arrive at my husband’s company.

Before we go to lunch, Ed takes us on a tour. Ed borrows some safety glasses for Lily and Emmy as we head into the shop. He shows us the wire EDM machines, water spraying against the glass to cool the parts being worked on. We walk through the grinding room and smell the oil. Ed is obviously delighted to show his girls the place where he spends most of his day. Even after being married for almost ten years, I don’t think I’ve had the full tour until today.

Ed took us into the quality room. “Now here’s a guy you need to meet,” he said. “This is Vladimir.” A large man with white hair turned around to shake my hand. He speaks with a Russian accent.

“I tell your husband when we meet, that if he does not come to shake my hand every day, he will give me a dollar,” Vladimir says, smiling as he shakes my hand.

“It’s true,” Ed adds. “I make sure to shake his hand at least twice a day!” The lunch bell rings and Ed clocks out. We get in the car to go to Ed’s favorite lunch place. The sign is faded; the red hot dog now looks pink and the yellow background is almost white. But the parking lot is newly paved, the yellow lines are sharp and crisp, and the restaurant is busy. We go up to the counter to order, and Ed orders his all-time favorite lunch from Papa Chris’–a patty melt. It is a rare treat for him; a thin burger smothered with cheese and grilled onions, sandwiched between buttery grilled bread. So different from the usual turkey-on-wheat he makes himself.

We linger over fries; Lily is generous with the ketchup. Emmy, her hot dog gone, asks if she can sample some of the meat from my gyro. Lunchtime is over too soon and it’s time for Daddy to go back to work. We drop him off and are on our way to return a pair of wrong size shoes I bought for Lily last week.

Having lunch with Daddy. Just writing about it makes me smile.

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