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Giving Up

24 Wednesday Jun 2026

Posted by Ginny Marie in family, marriage, travel

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As I was hiking with my husband up the side of the mountain to Mary’s Rock in Shenandoah National Park, I wanted to give up.

It was just the two of us on the trail that day. Our daughters were hiking the Old Rag trail, which we knew would be too challenging for us (and scary, with steep trails and a “rock scramble” to maneuver over). This trail was only about 3 miles round-trip, but I hadn’t realized how vertical it is.

We weren’t very far along before my heart started beating out of my chest and my face was beet red–and I’m not talking about the pretty, delicate “flushed” look from romantic novels. A family passed us, and the mom said, “Nothing like a trail that starts going up right away!” After several stops to catch my breath as my patient husband waited by my side, I had positively decided that I was too old and too fat to keep hiking. My hiking days were over…forever!

Blue blazed trail in Shenandoah National Park…not the steep trail where I gave up hiking.

At the top, we weren’t sure where the trail to the summit was. The same family that has passed us at the beginning of the trail was starting to go back, and pointed us in the right direction. I didn’t want to miss the view after all that work! The summit, of course, was beautiful and breathtaking all at once. Did this view change my mind?

No.

Especially since we had to go back down, which I know from experience can be harder than the way up. Going down involves using different muscles, knee pain, and fear of slipping and falling. I had already fallen on the way up and gave myself a good knock on the shoulder.

Christa and Keith hiked to the summit to the rocky and green topped mountain, part of the Blue Ridge Mountain range, on a sunny day with blue skies.
We reached the summit of Mary’s Rock in Shenandoah National Park.

We made it back down the mountain. My face calmed down and became a normal, skin-tone shade. We picked up the girls from the Old Rag trailhead, and later that day, had a nice dinner and watched the sunset from our cabin.

The next morning, I took up hiking again.

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Dinner Dance

04 Friday Mar 2016

Posted by Ginny Marie in marriage

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How often do Ed and I go out dancing? Not often enough! Last weekend was the first time we’ve been dancing since last year’s dinner dance! Our church’s school hosts a dinner dance yearly for a fundraiser, and last year we went for the first time. Even though Ed and I are very active in our church, we live too far away for our girls to attend the school. We are both alumni of the school, however. (We didn’t attend St. Andrews at the same time, so we didn’t really know each other back then! Ed was already in high school when I started Junior High.)

Ed and Ginny

The Dinner Dance is at a very fancy restaurant called Cafe la Cave. It includes waiters walking around with champagne and hors d’oeuvres, dinner, a silent and live auction, and then of course, dancing! I love the silent auction! I had my eye on a Coach purse and a Vera Bradley purse. The problem with bidding at an event like this is that friends bid against each other! The woman I was bidding against for the Coach purse was very determined, so I switched to the Vera Bradley purse. I won the bid, and I’m glad I did! It’s such a cute purse! Ed had his eye on Cubs tickets. He won the bid for two tickets last year, but this year a friend outbid him. We’ll have to buy our own tickets, because it seems as though this could be a good year for the Cubs!

Vera Bradley purse

I’ll let you in on a little secret; that afternoon, Ed and I went on a training walk for the Avon 39. I tripped on my own two feet and fell all.the.way.down. Lily said I looked like a rolling ball, which was good because I didn’t break anything. However, I did scrape up my knee, my shoulder, my hands and my chin on the sidewalk. My left wrist hurt so badly at the dance that I couldn’t hold my hors d’oeuvres! (Somehow, I managed to hold my Cosmopolitan in my right hand.) I told Ed to twirl me only with my right hand on the dance floor.

I iced my wrist when we got home, and the next day? It felt 100% better! I was so relieved. I really think working on the weight machines at the gym saved me. I’ve been going to the gym now for about a year and a half, and while I still weigh about the same, I feel stronger. So I’m encouraged to keep working out!

Like Cinderella, we didn’t leave the ball until midnight. Unlike Cinderella, I left with both my heels. Ed and I can’t wait until we can dance together again….

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