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Small Town Girl

21 Friday Sep 2012

Posted by Ginny Marie in family, writing

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I’m sitting at my laptop without my usual cup of coffee. Instead, I’m sipping on a glass of water. I just got home from a two mile walk, and since exercise was topic of last week’s Spin Cycle, I know you’ll forgive me for this week’s late Spin!

From the time I was 3 years old until I was 12, I lived in a red brick house on a red brick street across from a red brick church. I would walk down the street with my sister to our school, and I would ride my bike to the playground by the water tower in the middle of town. I could walk down the street to buy a gallon of milk for my mom, and go to the post office to pick up our mail from our P.O. box. I had the combination memorized, but I could also ask the postmistress to give me my mail. She knew me, and so did everyone else in town. When I was in sixth grade, every week my sister and I would walk to every house and business in town, distributing an advertising circular. It was our first job.

In our backyard, we had an apple tree and two plum trees. My mom would make plum jelly and homemade applesauce. A huge tractor tire was our sandbox, and my dad build a wooden cover for the sand to keep the town cats out of it. We had an old metal swing set that I used as monkey bars instead of its intended purpose. There was a rhubarb patch in the back with tall, tall dill plants. My sister and I would pick the rhubarb, tear off the huge leaves, rinse the stem under the hose and eat them raw. We would climb our neighbor’s tamarack tree, and then he would come out and yell at us to get down. He wasn’t always that crotchety. He did teach me how to ride a two-wheeler in the alley behind our houses.

As the pastor’s kids, we attended every baptism luncheon and wedding in town. Wedding receptions were held in the gym at the school, with huge tarps protecting the wooden floor. Ham and cheese sandwiches on huge platters would be served, and little plates of dainty, homemade buttermints would be scattered around the table. If the reception was to include dancing, it would be held at the AFW* hut instead. Adults would be dancing inside; kids would be running around the old Air Force airplane outside. There was a cracked hole in the windshield, which we assumed was a bullet hole. Was the body of the pilot still in the cockpit? We weren’t tall enough to look inside the plane discover if it was.

When I was 12, my family moved to the Chicago suburbs. However, I will always consider my hometown to be Buckley, Illinois.

Spin Cycle at Second Blooming

*I can’t remember if AFW is the right acronym!

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Brene Brown’s Daring Greatly {BlogHer Book Club}

20 Thursday Sep 2012

Posted by Ginny Marie in book nook

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As soon as I read the blurb on the book jacket, I knew I was going to enjoy reading Daring Greatly, by Brene Brown.

Based on twelve years of pioneering research, Dr. Brene Brown dispels the cultural myth that vulnerability is weakness and argues that it is, in truth, our most accurate measure of courage.

The full title of Brown’s book is Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead. At the end of the book are two chapters specifically for leaders and parents. However, don’t be misled by the term “leaders.” In some area of your life, you are a leader. Brown writes that Chapter 6 is “for all of us–parents, teachers, community volunteers, and CEOs–anyone who is willing to dare greatly and lead.” I also think that Chapter 7, “Wholehearted Parenting: Daring to Be the Adults We Want Our Children to Be” is useful to more than just parents, but to anyone who is an important adult figure in a child’s life. And if you think this book is just for women, think again! Brown’s whole section on how men perceive shame and vulnerability was eye-opening for me. Even more eye-popping was the revelation that while women want men to be vulnerable and open, when men actually ARE vulnerable, their vulnerability makes women uncomfortable! What a catch 22!

As I read through this book, I underlined and dog-eared so many phrases and pages that spoke to me. Not only does Brown use her research to back up her writing, she uses personal stories, which in turn makes her vulnerable. She not only advocates us to be vulnerable, she practices what she preaches. She writes, “My kitchen-table self is too messy, too imperfect, too unpredictable.” And then she goes on to tell us all about her kitchen-table self. Reading Daring Greatly is like sitting at the kitchen table with your best friend and chatting over a cup of coffee. It’s an honest read that warms your soul, dares you to cast aside the myth that being vulnerable is being weak, and to know that yes, you are enough.

Join the Daring Greatly discussion at BlogHer Book Club!

This is a paid review for BlogHer Book Club but the opinions expressed are my own.

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